Sometimes, the hardest lesson to learn is that no matter how much you give to others, some people will only see you as an option, not a priority. It's a painful truth that, despite our best efforts and unwavering generosity, some relationships remain fundamentally unbalanced. No matter how much we invest in others, some individuals will consistently view us as a convenient choice rather than a valued priority. This isn't a reflection of our worth, but rather a consequence of their own limitations and priorities. Learning to accept this reality, though difficult, is crucial for protecting our emotional well-being and fostering healthier, more reciprocal relationships in the future. It requires us to recognize that our value is intrinsic, independent of the validation we receive from others. “有時候，最難學到的教訓是，無論你給予別人多少，有些人只會把你當作一個選擇，而不是優先考慮的對象。” 這是一個痛苦的事實，盡管我們盡了最大的努力和堅定不移的慷慨，一些關系仍然從根本上不平衡。無論我們在別人身上投入多少，有些人始終會認為我們是一個方便的選擇，而不是一個值得重視的優先事項。 這并不反映我們的價值，而是他們自身局限性和優先事項的結果。 學會接受這個現實，雖然困難，但可以保護我們