It's a common thought that the deepest pain comes from losing a loved one. However, the real heartbreak lies in losing yourself while trying to hold onto them. Think about it: as you pour your energy into loving someone and trying to make them happy, you can lose touch with your own worth. You might start to make yourself smaller, trying to fit into their life, and in the process, you leave behind pieces of who you are – your voice, your passions, your very essence. That kind of loss stays with you. True love shouldn't demand that you sacrifice yourself. You are valuable and amazing in your own right. Cherish your heart, yes, but protect your spirit even more fiercely. You deserve to be complete, not just needed. 人們普遍認(rèn)為最深的痛苦來自失去所愛的人。然而，真正的心碎在于在試圖抓住他們時(shí)失去了自己。想想看：當(dāng)你傾注你的精力去愛一個(gè)人并試圖讓他們快樂時(shí)，你可能會(huì)失去與自身價(jià)值的聯(lián)系。你可能會(huì)開始讓自己變小，試圖融入他們的生活，在這個(gè)過程中，你留下了自己的一部分——你的聲音、你的激情、你的本質(zhì)。這種損失會(huì)一直伴隨著你。真正的愛不應(yīng)該要求你犧牲自己。你本身就是有價(jià)值且令人驚嘆的。珍惜你的內(nèi)心，是的，但更要堅(jiān)強(qiáng)地保護(hù)你的精神。你值得完整，而不只是被需要。