You cannot be everything to everyone. You cannot be nice and kind all the time. You cannot be spot on and right always. There is nothing constant about us as humans and that's okay. It's okay if someone finds you irritating, it's okay if you are not cool enough for the party, it's okay if you don't get the joke and it's okay if you have a different sense of humor. Not everyone can see you through the same lens. You might be the universe in someone's eyes and a tiny little star dust to another one. So stop trying to get everyone to like you, stop trying to please everyone and let go of that need. You will have to learn to let go of anything that doesn't make you happy or help you grow into a better person. “你不能對每個人都面面俱到。你 不可能一直友善和善良。你不可能總是準確和正確的。我們人類沒有什么恒定性，這沒關系。 如果有人覺得你很煩，沒關系；如果你在派對上不夠酷，沒關系；如果你沒聽懂笑話，沒關系；如果你有不同的幽默感，也沒關系。不是每個人都能用同一種眼光看待你。你可能是某個人眼中的宇宙，對另一個人來說卻只是一粒小小的星塵。所以，別再試圖讓每個人都喜歡你，別再試圖取悅每個人，放下這種需求。 你必須學會放下任何不讓你快樂或幫助你成長為更好的人的東西。” — 里姆·卡哈里