One of the biggest mistakes I made in the past years of my life is that I thought love was about finding the right person. But as I grow older I realized that it's all about becoming the right person. Being that improved version of yourself where you will not beg or chased someone just because you think they are the right one for you without even thinking if you're the right person for them. Sometimes you have to nourish your own soul first with all the love that you deserve instead of freely giving it to other people without even receiving the same amount of energy and efforts you give. Prioritize yourself in the end yourself is your biggest commitment. 在我過去的歲月中，犯過的最大錯誤之一就是，我曾以為，愛就是找到那個對的人。 但隨著年齡的增長，我意識到這完全關乎于成為合適的那個人。成為更好的自己，不再僅僅因為你覺得某個人適合你，就乞求或追逐對方，而全然不考慮自己是否也是對方的合適選擇。有時候，你必須先用自己的所有應得的愛滋養自己的靈魂，而不是毫無保留地將愛給予他人，卻沒有獲得與之相稱的能量和付出。 最終，要把自己的需求放在優先位置，因為你自己是你最大的承諾。