我不得不咽下的最難接受的苦果是，無(wú)論你多么善待某人，無(wú)論你多么愛(ài)他們，他們都有可能、也一定會(huì)背棄你。這是一個(gè)痛苦的真相：并非每個(gè)人都會(huì)珍視你所給予的愛(ài)與忠誠(chéng)。 有時(shí)候，那些你最珍視的人恰恰也是最能深深傷害你的人。但在這段苦澀的經(jīng)歷中，我也領(lǐng)悟到，他們的行為反映的是他們自身，而非你。這提醒我們要保護(hù)好自己的心，只與那些真正值得你付出善意的人交往。 The hardest pill I had to swallow was learning that no matter how good you could be to somebody, no matter how much you love them, they can and will turn their backs on you. It’s a painful truth that not everyone will value the love and loyalty you offer. Sometimes, the ones you cherish the most are the ones who hurt you the deepest. But in this harsh lesson, I also learned that their actions are a reflection of them, not you. It’s a reminder to protect your heart and to only invest in those who truly deserve your kindness.

很喜歡三毛說(shuō)過(guò)的這段話：“ 刻意去找的東西，往往是找不到的。天下萬(wàn)物的來(lái)和去，都有它的時(shí)間。” 你越期待一個(gè)結(jié)果，就越容易被結(jié)局傷害。你越是執(zhí)著誰(shuí)，就會(huì)被誰(shuí)傷得越深。 美好的感情，有時(shí)就在不經(jīng)意間產(chǎn)生。只有放下沒(méi)有結(jié)果的執(zhí)念，才能有退一步的從容，進(jìn)一步的歡喜。 人生是一場(chǎng)體驗(yàn)，世間的一切，終究要與時(shí)間和解。如果沒(méi)有太陽(yáng)，就去享受風(fēng)雨中的清涼。如果沒(méi)有鮮花，就去感受泥土的芬芳。如果沒(méi)有愛(ài)情，就去獨(dú)享一個(gè)人的自由。 有些人，有些事，盡力之後，就選擇順其自然吧。 把一切都交給時(shí)間，失之東隅，收之桑榆，相信一切都是最好的安排。

“No, life has not disappointed me. On the contrary, I find it truer, more desirable and mysterious every year – ever since the day when the great liberator came to me: the idea that life could be an experiment of the seeker for knowledge and not a duty, not a calamity, not trickery. – And knowledge itself: let it be something else for others; for example, a bed to rest on, or the way to such a bed, or a diversion, or a form of leisure – for me it is a world of dangers and victories in which heroic feelings, too, find places to dance and play.” “不，生活沒(méi)有讓我失望。相反，我發(fā)現(xiàn)它一年比一年真實(shí)、誘人且神秘——自從偉大的解放者來(lái)到我身邊的那一天起，我就有了這樣的感受：生命可以是一場(chǎng)求知者的實(shí)驗(yàn)，而非一種負(fù)擔(dān)、一場(chǎng)災(zāi)難或詭計(jì)。至于知識(shí)本身，不妨讓它成為對(duì)他人而言的另一種事物，比如一張可供休息的床，或是通往這張床的路徑，或是某種消遣，或是某種形式的閑暇。于我而言，它是一個(gè)充滿危險(xiǎn)與勝利的天地，在這里，英雄般的豪情也能找到翩然起舞與盡情揮灑的空間。”

有時(shí)候，你會(huì)覺(jué)得自己像迷路一樣， 走著走著，好像一切都不再熟悉， 不知道前方是什么，也不知道該往哪里去。 別急著責(zé)怪自己。 迷茫，不是失敗的信號(hào)，反而是生命在溫柔地提醒你。。。你要轉(zhuǎn)彎了。 因?yàn)榕f的方向，已經(jīng)不再適合現(xiàn)在的你。 新的方向，還在慢慢浮現(xiàn)。 轉(zhuǎn)折點(diǎn)從來(lái)不是突然發(fā)生的， 它藏在你每一次的疑問(wèn)、每一滴的不安、每一聲嘆息里。 所以，請(qǐng)溫柔地走過(guò)現(xiàn)在的這一段空白。 不是你沒(méi)有方向，而是你正在醞釀新的可能。 你會(huì)走向一個(gè)，真正屬于你的地方。

世界太吵，別聽(tīng)，別看，別管，朝前走。喜歡的歌慢慢聽(tīng)，喜歡的事慢慢做，喜歡的生活好好努力。向下生根，向上開(kāi)花，不負(fù)生活，不負(fù)自己。

Terribly sensitive, Terribly emotional, But not so terrible. Maybe The sensitive heart can see Things a stronger heart cannot. Feel things a stronger heart cannot. The sensitive heart is not weak Like many led you to believe, The sensitive heart is creative, highly passionate And much stronger than it will ever led on. “非常敏感， 情緒非常激動(dòng)， 但也沒(méi)那么糟。 可能 敏感的心靈能夠看見(jiàn) 有些事是堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的心所無(wú)法承受的。 感受那些連堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的心也無(wú)法體會(huì)的情感。 敏感的心靈并非軟弱。 正如許多人引導(dǎo)你相信的那樣， 敏感的心靈富有創(chuàng)造力，情感強(qiáng)烈。 而且遠(yuǎn)比之前所呈現(xiàn)的要強(qiáng)大得多。”

If there is one thing I know, it is that life goes on. People change, and love transforms, and our hearts break and grow within us. The things we once wanted fade into new hope, we lose those we thought we would never lose, and we walk away from those we thought we would never walk away from. If there is one thing I know, it is that even through all of its confusion, even through the messiness of our existence, life continues. We push on. “如果說(shuō)我深知一件事，那就是生命不息。人會(huì)變，愛(ài)會(huì)轉(zhuǎn)化，我們的心會(huì)破碎，也會(huì)在其中成長(zhǎng)。曾經(jīng)渴望的事物逐漸淡去，化為新的希望；我們失去那些本以為永遠(yuǎn)無(wú)法失去的東西；我們告別那些本以為永遠(yuǎn)無(wú)法割舍的人。如果說(shuō)我深知一件事，那就是縱使經(jīng)歷種種困惑，縱使面對(duì)生活的紛亂，生命依然延續(xù)。我們繼續(xù)前行。”

- 真正有光的人，壓的時(shí)間越久，深.度越深，綻放的光芒才可以越燦爛。 - 人生總是這樣：有順風(fēng)順?biāo)臅r(shí)候，也會(huì)有四處碰壁的時(shí)候，你要懂得用“春風(fēng)得意”時(shí)的自己，去拉一把“水深火熱”中的自己。

I hope you find a love that feels like an adventure, as much as it feels like home. I hope you find a love that is calm and peaceful, as much as it is exciting and loud. I hope you find a love that makes you feel safe, as much as it makes you feel free. I hope you find a love that is slow, as much as it is passionate and exhilarating. I hope you find a love that is respectful, as much as it is forgiving. I hope you find a love that is simple and easy, as much as it is intricate and complex. I hope you find a love that makes you feel enough exactly as you are, as much as it makes you believe in all your dreams. I hope you find a love that makes you feel strong and empowered, as much as it makes you feel cared for and protected. I hope you find a love that feels real, as much as it feels like magic. 希望你能找到一種既讓你感覺(jué)像家一樣溫馨，又讓你覺(jué)得像是一次冒險(xiǎn)的愛(ài)情。 希望你能找到一種既令人興奮又熱鬧的愛(ài)情，同時(shí)也能保持平靜與安寧。 我希望你能找到一種愛(ài)，它不僅能讓你感到自由，還能讓你感到安全。 希望你能找到一種緩慢而深沉的愛(ài)，它同樣充滿激情和令人振奮。 我希望你能找到一種既尊重又寬容的愛(ài)情。 希望你能找到一種既簡(jiǎn)單又輕松的愛(ài)情，同時(shí)也充滿復(fù)雜與精妙。

你以為過(guò)不去的，后來(lái)都過(guò)去了。 你以為忘不了的，后來(lái)也變得模糊了。 那些曾讓你掉眼淚的人，如今連名字都懶得提起。 你不用強(qiáng)迫自己變堅(jiān)強(qiáng)， 時(shí)間自然會(huì)幫你整理好那些亂七八糟的心情。 放心吧，熬過(guò)去的都會(huì)變成過(guò)去， 你會(huì)好的，會(huì)比以前更好。