非常喜歡心理學家維吉尼亞的這句話: I like this sentence from psychologist Virginia very much: 當我內心足夠強大 When my heart is strong enough 你指責我，我感受到你的受傷 You accuse me. and I feel your hurt 你討好我，我看到你需要認可 You flatter me. i see you need validation 當你能夠意識到這世界上的所有關系 When you realize that all relationships in the world 其實都包含著一場巨大的恐懼投射時 Involve a huge projection of fear 別人的評價就再也不會影響到你 The judgment of others will no longer affect you #人間草木#吾獨愛蓮#內心強大#生活流水賬