Being understood is far more meaningful than simply being loved. Someone can love you deeply and still not truly understand you at all. Love often comes naturally with time, but understanding is a conscious choice. To be understood means someone sees you clearly, not only the good parts, but also the sides you try to hide. The tired parts. The scared parts. The moody and uncertain parts. And still, they stay. They choose to keep learning about you, even when it’s hard. Even when you don’t have the words to explain what’s going on inside your head. When you are understood, you don’t have to keep explaining yourself. You don’t have to pretend. 被理解遠比被單純地愛更有意義。有人可能深深地愛著你，卻仍然完全不了解你。愛往往隨著時間的推移自然而然地產(chǎn)生，而理解則是一種有意識的選擇。 被理解意味著有人能清晰地看到你，不僅看到你美好的一面，還能注意到你試圖隱藏的那些側(cè)面。 那些疲憊的部分。那些害怕的部分。那些情緒化且不確定的部分。然而，它們?nèi)匀淮嬖凇?他們選擇持續(xù)了解你，即便遇到困難也不放棄。 即使你找不到言語來描述你頭腦中的思緒。 當(dāng)別人理解你時，你就不必再反復(fù)解釋自己。你也不必再裝模作樣。